This is the first sex toy I've purchased. The first time I used it, it didn't take long for the sucking and stroking action to make me have a wonderful orgasm. It is true it does feel like a real blowjob once you get used to ^helping^ it out a little. I sure wish the sucking action was automatically generated because my hand soon became tired after a few minutes pumping the bulb. Plus, the best thing about a real blowjob is the experience of not having to do anything so you can concentrate on enjoying the sensations. However the second time I tried to use it, the rubber sleeve cracked. I tried to adjust the sleeve but it cracked again. Then it was totally useless! It met the trash can a few minutes later. If you are very careful with it or don't mind spending $20 for one or two sessions, then it's worth the money. Too bad too... I'd pay three times the price for a high quality toy that I didn't find myself throwing in the trash right away.