My wife & i had never used any sex toys before (even in previous relationships). She was unsure that she'd like it and was nervous. She told me she didnt want to use it, but i planned it so that i'd pull it out when she was really hot and wet. I could do and say just about anything when she gets that hot. So, i got her hot and told her to let me try this. I lubed it up really well and pushed it in. She immediatley moaned and groaned. She totally let me use it in her. The size was perfect and there are 3 main benefits to it being soft. 1) It was so soft that i could ram it in really hard without hurting her. She got off on that so hard. 2) She was tight and her pussy was resistant to it because of its size, but i could squeeze it in with lube and it fit into her. 3) I used it on her for about an hour and she never complained during or after about getting sore. Best of all...she was making noises i've never heard her make before! Get it and use it hardcore, she'll LOVE it!!!